Seems to me, that there is a flip side to the magical gift exchange that is ,
" getting - to - know ".
A process of feeling,and familiarity that is most directly related to the memory and unconscious discovery, not the willful directed intelligence of the present observer.
The intention is reversed when a party is seeking knowledge, expecting to attain a preconceived outcome for a reason.
something in the "atmosphere " of the encounter has reversed spin, like high pressure and low pressure.
Culturally we respond to one with a sense of loss , the other with gain.
selfless sacrifice - self interest
Marketing and Mortality
Magic and Manipulation
